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Two Real Paths

Reverse Mortgage vs. Selling Your Home

Staying with a reverse mortgage and selling outright both convert home equity into usable funds — but they lead to very different lifestyles. A reverse mortgage lets you remain in your home while accessing equity, with no required monthly payments. Selling converts all your equity to cash at once but requires moving. Neither is universally better; the right choice depends on your goals.

Side by Side

What Actually Changes With Each Option

Reverse Mortgage: You Stay

Remain in your home and community. No required monthly mortgage payments. Access equity as a lump sum, line of credit, or monthly payments. You retain title and remain responsible for taxes, insurance, and upkeep. Loan balance grows over time.

Selling: You Move

Convert all equity to cash immediately. No ongoing loan balance or interest accrual. Requires finding a new home, moving costs, and adjusting to a new location. Real estate commissions and closing costs reduce net proceeds.

Cost Comparison

Selling typically costs 6-10% of sale price in commissions and closing costs. A reverse mortgage involves origination fees, mortgage insurance, and closing costs, but no moving expenses since you stay put.

Impact on Heirs

Selling leaves a clean cash inheritance. A reverse mortgage balance grows over time, reducing remaining equity, though heirs can repay the loan and keep the home, sell it, or let the lender settle the non-recourse loan.

Questions Worth Asking Yourself

Before You Decide Either Way

1

Do You Want to Stay?

If your home, community, and support network matter to you, staying with a reverse mortgage may outweigh the financial math alone.

2

What's Your Health and Mobility Outlook?

A home that works today may not work in 10 years. Consider accessibility, stairs, and long-term care needs.

3

What Do You Want to Leave Behind?

If leaving maximum equity to heirs is a priority, selling and downsizing may preserve more value than a reverse mortgage.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Reverse Mortgage vs. Selling, Explained

Is it better to get a reverse mortgage or sell my home?
There is no universally right answer. A reverse mortgage lets you stay in your home and access equity without moving. Selling converts all your equity to cash but requires moving and transaction costs. The right choice depends on whether you want to remain in your current home and your broader retirement goals.
What are the costs of selling versus getting a reverse mortgage?
Selling typically involves real estate commissions, closing costs, and potential capital gains considerations, plus moving costs. A reverse mortgage involves origination fees, mortgage insurance, and closing costs, but no moving costs since you remain in the home.
Does a reverse mortgage affect what my heirs inherit?
Yes. The loan balance grows over time as interest accrues, reducing remaining equity compared to not taking one out. Heirs can typically repay the loan and keep the home, sell it and keep remaining equity, or let the lender settle the non-recourse loan.
Talk It Through

Not Sure Which Path Fits Your Life?

Private consultation with Kelly or Ray Nadeau. No pressure toward either option — just a clear picture of both paths for your situation.

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